Confucius
(page 4)
The Superior Man has nothing to compete for. But if he must compete, he does it in an archery match, wherein he ascends to his position, bowing in deference.
If a man has no humaneness what can his propriety be like? If a man has no humaneness what can his happiness be like?
Listen widely to remove your doubts and be careful when speaking about the rest and your mistakes will be few.
The Superior Man is all-embracing and not partial. The inferior man is partial and not all-embracing.
At fifteen my heart was set on learning; at thirty I stood firm; at forty I had no more doubts; at fifty I knew the mandate of heaven; at sixty my ear was obedient; at seventy I could follow my heart's desire without transgressing the norm.