Oldtimers, weekends, and airplane landings are alike. If you can walk away from them, they're successful.
All right everyone, line up alphabetically according to your height.
All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for... reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration.
Finding good players is easy. Getting them to play as a team is another story.